Garden Veggies

Garden Veggies
Made into tile for my stove backsplash

Portland Rose Garden

Portland Rose Garden
Mike and my 2 youngest sons Ian and Leif

Grandson Michael's Birthday 2014 throwing water balloons

Grandson Michael's Birthday 2014 throwing water balloons
With son Beau, Grandson Luke and his mom Jennifer

Maren

Maren
I cut this out of a wedding line. I must take more pictures of her.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

A RARE ABILITY



The following slide show is of a group of pictures that my son Ian worked on last year for a gallery show in Portland Oregon. God plunked him here on earth as an artist. From the time he was a very little boy his imagination was evident and amazing. At two years old he was carrying around little pieces of paper with his drawings. We have boxes of his art work from those early years. He would draw animals for awhile, then sea life, dinosaurs, dragons, space ships then Ewoks and Star Wars stuff. He even got obsessed with Chinese writing at one time. He spent 4 years becoming expert at airbrusing at Lagoon. By the time Ian was in high school his abstract renderings had their own look. He has a style of his own which every artist longs to develop. Ian you are something quite unique!
Gwash is a watercolor like medium. Ian actually does oils also. There are a couple of his pieces at the bottom of my gallery on this blog.

IAN'S HORSE PICTUES IN GWASH

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

LEFT TO TELL - Book Review


By Immaculee Ilibagiza with Steve Erwin
DISCOVERING GOD AMIDST THE RWANDAN HOLOCAUST


Lessons from the book:1. The genocidal murder that took place in the Book of Mormon never seemed real to me until after reading this book. A cultural tradition of hate and superiority fosters a situation where neighbors and friends can turn and kill you in a tribal frenzy. The Book of Mormon teaches that when societies begin to seperate into tribes humanity and order falls apart. The visual image and the smell of rotting bodies stacked up in heaps and laying along the road with flies and dogs eating their flesh reminded me of some scenes in the Book of Mormon.


2. Immaculee hid from the Hutus with 6-7 other women in a very small bathroom for 3 months. She weighed 115 lbs. when she went in and 65 when she came out. Satan will scream negative self-defeating thoughts in our heads if we let him, especially when we are in emotional and physical crisis. The negative head talk includes self pity, hate, anger and vengeance. If Satan can get us so discouraged that we lose hope he has won. The only way out is positive head talk associated with prayer—deep, soul wrenching, pleading prayer. I saw God rescue Immaculee in this way. Her prayers were amazing to me. They included her seeking scriptural promises and her core religious teachings. Only when the negative self-talk was controlled by prayers was the spirit able to teach her—then the ideas began to flow through her. Her ideas included ways to keep them safe as putting the wardrobe in front of the bathroom door and her inspiration to begin learning English. She was able to get some books from the Minister in whose bathroom they were staying. God helped her to learn quickly. Her ability to be taught and inspired continued through the entire ordeal as she was an instrument to help many people.

3. Imaculee began to understand that God was there for her and she started to lay out her righteous needs and wants and then go forward working hard as if they were already a reality. She imagined herself with a job at the UN, going every day, filling out the same forms and never giving up until she finally ran into the right person. When she decided she wanted to get married she made a list of characteristics she wanted, even drawing a picture and finally said, "by the way could you make him Catholic."
4. Nothing is more healing than forgiveness.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

WASHING DISHES AND THE HIP REPLACEMENT


This is day 11 of Mike’s hip replacement. He is doing well. His pain isn’t bad and he is walking a mile on the treadmill in 10-minute increments 3 times a day. He has been able to walk up and down the basement stairs from day one. His appetite hasn’t been good, which for me has always meant a lack of zest for life. Something about the desire for food makes everything seem better. I know—that’s why we get fat. I am blaming the appetite problem and his intermittent sick feelings on to the remnants of anesthesia. Getting him to wake up after anesthesia is a bit of a challenge and scary. I know that yuky stuff can stay in your system for some time. All in all it could have been worse but I am not sure he is ready for the second hip surgery. Hopefully it will be like having a baby and he will forget the bad parts. I think the hardest thing for him has been his dependence on me—mostly for his right sock. My fingers are bad and it takes longer than he would like.



So what has been the worst part for me in all this?: I forgot how much I appreciate Mike washing the dishes. He made that commitment about 10 years ago and it has been a wonderful addition to my life. I don’t mind cooking but having help with the dishes feels so nice. There have been many times when we have had guests and Mike has left me at the table visiting and gotten up to wash the dishes. I feel indulged. Sometimes I think he should stay and visit too but he never wants to let a dirty dish sit for too long.



My dad with all his crazy faults would clear the table after dinner. I remember him often taking the food away before we were finished. Mike is not that bad.



Mike is not good at what to do with leftovers and that is fine. I actually don’t mind helping him. Dish time is good amiable chat time for us as I help him dry the pots and pans and put away the leftovers. I still feel spoiled. My problem with doing dishes alone is; well, maybe it is the aloneness. It seems to take so long with one, especially after I have cooked. I find myself getting distracted and wandering off to do something else half way through the job. The other night I was finishing the dishes at 11:00 PM. I know some women leave dishes in the sink all night because they just can’t face the prospects after cooking, but that was something that never happened in my mother’s home. I can thank her for wanting to wake up to a clean kitchen.



Could this be the secret to our happy marriage? : "...researchers...found that the best single-item predictor of long-term marital success among the couples they studied was ‘husband voluntarily and cheerfully participates in the housework.’ There may be a number of reasons why this item turned out to be such a powerful predictor, but my guess is that it has to do with attitudes. The husband who pitches in to do his share without having to be cajoled is clearly a team player." My Parents Married on a Dare, Carlfred Broderick, p. 77.


So here is a big cheer of gratitude for my dish-doing husband and a hearty wish for his quick recovery so he can get back to the job.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

GLORY IN TRIBULATION

Can anyone really "glory in tribulation" even if we know our trials are good for us? I have come to believe that only through trials will we learn certain important lessons in this life. I hate this mortal fact but it is true.

Romans 5: 3-5 ...but we glory in tribulations also; knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope; And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Hyly Ghost which is given unto us.



Spencer W. Kimball: "No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude and humility. All that we suffer and all that we endure, especially when we endure it patiently, builds up our characters, purifies our hearts, expands our souls, and makes us more tender and charitable, more worthy to be called the children of God...and it is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we came here to acquire and which will make us more like our Father and Mother in heaven." (Faith Precedes the Miracle, p. 98)



Boyd K. Packer: "Some are tested by poor health, some by a body that is deformed or homely. Others tested by handsome and healthy bodies; some by the passion of youth; others by the erosions of old age. Some suffer disappointment in marriage, family problems; others live in poverty and obscurity. Some (perhaps this is the hardest test) find ease and luxury. All are part of the test, and there is more equality in this testing than sometimes we suspect." (Ensign, Nov. 1980)

Friday, March 6, 2009

GROWING OLD

"Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years. People grow old by deserting their ideals, their faith. There is always the love of wonder, a childlike appetite for what is next, and the joy of your life. You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt; as young as your self-confidence, and as old as your fear or despair. In the center of our heart is a recording chamber and so long as it receives messages of beauty, hope, cheer, courage, and faith, so long are we young. ( David B. Haight, Ensign, Nov. 1983)

Monday, March 2, 2009

MY FAVORITE BOOKS



I am not a prolific reader with lots and lots of books under my belt but I do belong to a Book Club and try to read a few books every year. Here are some of my favorites and why I like them. Check out the used books link here for some of these that might be out of print. http://www.fetchbook.info/


HOW GREEN WAS MY VALLEY by Richard Llewellyn—The story takes place in a Welsh coal mining village, about the turn of the century, as seen through the eyes of a child. It was written in 1940. My cover says "A beautiful story, told in words which have Welsh Music in them." I agree.


THE GIANT JOSHUA by Maurine Whipple. This book won the Utah author a national award when it was written in 1941. The late Eugene England of the BYU English Dept. said it is the most beautiful Mormon fiction ever written. I agree. The story is about polygamy and the settling of St. George. And although the book was nationally acclaimed my mother said the books were hard to come by in Utah in the 40’s. The church did not like it. They have since repented and it has been republished and sold in Deseret Book several times but because of the church rejection Maurine never wrote anything else...which is sad. This is a book that stays with you forever.


A TREE GROWS IN BROOKLYN by Betty Smith - This is a coming of age book set in the immigrant tenement housing in 1912 New York. Francie learns that "there had to be the dark and muddy waters so that the sun could have something to background its flashing glory." The book is charming and a testimony to the great opportunities of being an American even in poverty. While reading it I thought of my grandmother who was Francie’s age about this time.


IF A LION COULD TALK by Mildred Walker - Mark Ryegate is a Baptist minister who felt he had been called by God to teach the gospel to the Indians in the wilderness. The Introduction says this about him: "He is self-absorbed as only a man with a message can be; he is manipulative; he is in love with his oratorical powers." We watch as Mark is humbled in a unique way. It made me think of the difficulties of our own missionaries going into strange cultures and languages to teach the gospel. Another book by Mildred Walker Winter Wheat is also excellent.


THE WOMAN IN WHITE by Wilkie Collins - OK, You see I like Victorian stories. This is a great mystery. The BBC made a fun adaptation.


KRISTIN LAVRANSDATTER - THE WREATH by Sigrid Undset – This is a Norwegian translation and the first of a trilogy. The Nunnally translation is a must. The culture is beautifully captured in a story that takes place in 14th century Norway. The introduction says this: "...Kristin’s greatest sin is not the fact that she succumbs to her sexual desires and yields to the amorous demands of her impetuous suitor before they are properly married. Of much greater import is Kristin’s decision to thwart her father’s wishes, to deny the traditions of her ancestors, and to defy the church; her worst sin is that of pride." This is young adult worthy.


THE FORSYDE SAGA by John Galsworthy – This is an epic story addressing the rich societies of Victorian England. Mike says if its old England I will like it, which is probably true. Masterpiece Theater did a wonderful adaptation.


PEACE LIKE A RIVER by Leif Enger - I loved the family, their spirituality, the magic. This is reviewed on this blog in June of 2008.
THE KEYS TO THE KINGDOM by A. J. Cronin - Francis Chisholm is a humble priest who wants to help others as a result of some personal tragedies. He is sent to China where he establishes a flourishing Catholic mission amid desperate poverty, civil war, plague, and the hostility of his superiors. The immensity of life’s problems causes Francis to question his faith and why he keeps trying. It was very thought provoking.


A TOWN LIKE ALICE by Nevil Shute - I often read books after watching the Masterpiece Theatre movie version. I loved the movie and the book. The story takes place during WWII and begins with the forced march of some British women who were living in Malasia based on a real experience. One of the young women in the march meets an Australian who she believes was killed by the Japanese because he stole a chicken for them. Parts of the story take place in Australia and Britain. It has some interesting twists. Young adult worthy.


ANYTHING BY CATHERINE COOKSON - This is escapist fluff. She is an English Author who lived until her late 90’s pumping out books till the end. I have read a lot of them. They are clean with no worries about sex but they do have a human violent element. Cookson writes about the poor rising above their class in the Newcastle part of England. The BBC has made 10-15 of her stories into movies and Cosmos video in Kaysville has them all. I have watched each one several times. Some of my favorite books: The Dwelling Place, The Banniman Legacy, The Black Velvet Gown, The Whip, The Tilly Totter duo, The Girl, and well, they are all fun.


THE GATHERING OF ZION the story of the Mormon trail by Wallace Stegner – I have heard that this was President Hinckley’s favorite book. A master storyteller and non-Mormon tells these wonderful pioneer stories. This book is void of doctrine--only great stories and people who lived them.


RADICAL SON by David Horowitz – If you ever wanted to know what happened on the radical left during the 60’s this is your book. Horowitz was there on the front lines and has remarkable insight into what went on. Maybe its because I grew up in this era but I found this book compelling.


THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF PARLY P. PRATT – PPP was in the trenches from much of the beginning of the restoration. His writings have preserved the details of many events that might have been tragically forgotten. After I was half through the book I thought maybe I should have kept track of the number of miles he walked for the Lord’s work—it was thousands and a lot with bare feet. The new and enhanced edition has lots of pictures and notes by the compilers the Proctors. Nothing I have ever read has given me a better understanding of church history.


SURPRISED BY JOY The Shape of My Early Life, C. S. Lewis-- I love this quote: "You must picture me alone in that room in Magdalen, night after night, feeling whenever my mind lifed even for a second from my work, the steady, unrelenting approach of Him whom I so earnestly desired not to meet. That which I greatly feared had at last come upon me. In the Trinity Term of 1929 I gave in, and admitted that God was God, and knelt and prayed: perhaps, that night the most dejected and reluctant convert in all Entgland." This was the beginning of his Christian writing that I believe changed christianity.

Friday, February 27, 2009

GHOST TOWN - MOVIE REVIEW


I heard this was fun and it is. And there is no sex-none-zilch. Ricky Gervias is perfectly cast as a socially challenged dentist. The part was made for him and Greg Kinear is quick and fast with the one liners. Kinear plays a ghost who has come back to keep his wife from marrying someone he thinks is a gold digger. Ricky's character can see and hear Greg along with a host of other ghosts who start bugging Ricky to help them with some unfinished earth business.
I had a hard time seeing Tea Leoni's character linked with the dentist. It never felt very real and I don't think he even kissed her. It reminded me of the theme in the movie As Good As it Gets. Jack Nicholson might have made some changes to his character by the end but he was still not someone I would wish on anyone. A classy woman like Helen Hunt would have to be crazy to hook up with him. But, stranger things happen in real life so we can enjoy the fantasy. Even though Ricky warmed up some in the end of Ghost Town he was still going to be a handful for any woman. Is it really possible to change that much in a short time? The movie winds up with a good moral about helping others.
I just found out something I didn't know about Red Box movie dispensing machines. You can go online and reserve a movie you want at the exact Red Box you would like to pick it up at and they will save it for--I am not sure the time--maybe 24 hours. This was nice to know as I had given up on Red Box because they were always out of the movie I wanted. You just go and swipe your card and wa-la there is the reserved movie.

Monday, February 23, 2009

THE LIAHONA PRINCIPLE



Without the Book of Mormon we are just another protestant church. There is an online bookclub http://www.goodreads.com/book/explore that has the Book of Mormon as having the most votes for the best book ever written. One of the votes is mine. The discussion board has lots of screaming about this. I suspect by people who know nothing about it. This month is my 3rd anniversary of reading my scriptures "every day no matter what!" I always start the year by reading the Book of Mormon again. Reading every day I am able to read more than I would have believed--often 3 of the standard works. The following quote is powerful to me because I have a testimony that it is true.



"One fascinating peculiarity of the Liahona was that not only did its pointers guide them in the wilderness but 'a new writing, which was plain to be read appeared on the pointers to give them 'understanding concerning the ways of the Lord and it was written and changed from time to time, according to their faith, diligence' and heed. Very little is said about the phenomenon. In fact, I can find no further reference to this changeable writing. As I read the Book of Mormon, however, something strange seems to happen to me. Passages of scriptures that I have read many times in one light seem to change--and suddenly there is a new meaning to that old and familiar scripture. I like to think that the Book of Mormon is truly like the Liahona of old. Not only does it point us in the way of the Lord and to the Lord according to the faith, diligence, and heed we give it, but if we are interested enough to read it again and again, from cover to cover, there are times when a 'new writing' --plain to
read--seems to appear." ( Robert E. Wells 1991 Sperry Symposium, p. 13)

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

MEXICAN CHICKEN CHEESE SOUP


I created this soup recently by combining a couple of recipes.




1T. oil
1 large clove of garlic grated
Cook together in large pot until the garlic begins to brown.



Add 1 Can Rotel type tomatoes with peppers or use one can of chopped tomatoes with 2 seeded jalapeno peppers chopped. (Smith's has a Kroger brand that is half the price of Rotel) Add 3 tomato cans of water and the following:



3 fresh corn tortillas cut up into ½ inch cubes
1 tsp. dry Oregano leaves a must no powder.
1 tsp. Fresh ground Cumin or regular ground cumin
1 Can of beans of your choice as black, pinto, or White.
I like to use great northern white beans. If you use black beans rinse them otherwise add the water and all from other beans.



Cut up one half pound of Velveta cheese and add. Simmer for 20 minutes.



Remove ½ Cup of the liquid from the soup and mix with ½ C. of cold water and ½ C. of flour. Stir until smooth and pour into the boiling soup. Stir until thick and bubbly.



Eat it as is or add one large can of chunk chicken, juice and all or 1 large chicken breast cooked and chopped up. This is good with a little leftover rotisserie chicken.


Serve with Mexican condiments as chopped cilantro, sour cream, chips, chopped avocados or whatever. We like to put a small scoop of cooked rice in the bottom of the bowl and pour in the soup. Frankly, I like it best with just the rice and maybe a little chopped cilantro. This serves 4 to 6 generous servings. I like to double the recipe as it keeps well for several days of enjoyment.